couriernew couriernew posted March 17th, 2013 at 7:30 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 320 times. Answered 98 times.

I have a VNese girlfriend. She's terrific in all other ways, but she's a bit obsessed with good health, which can be a pain in the ass. We're at the dreaded stage where she's imposing limits on how many beers I can drink in a day, week, etc. She's pushing really hard for a limit of 2 beers per session. I know that most Tays with Viet girlfriends or wives have gone through this, and it's a fairly common point of contention. But what I don't know is how others have effectively dealt with it. She's been pretty stubborn about it thus far. Will she relax on this point eventually, or do I have to argue it again and again? I like to have 4-5 beers. Not every day, but maybe once a week. If I ignore her, is it a deal breaker? What to do? All advice appreciated...

Ly2000 Ly2000 posted December 3rd, 2009 at 4:47 am to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 137 times. Answered 105 times.

Are Tays in Hanoi different to Tays in Europe?

tanmedia tanmedia posted February 15th, 2012 at 1:58 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 154 times. Answered 51 times.

I'm looking for decent Japanese food in Hanoi. I lived in Japan for more than 10 years, so I guess I'm a bit fussy. Most of what I've had in Hanoi has been over-priced and heavy handed. My benchmark is The Sushi Bar in HCM, which I thought was very good for the price.

x_o555 x_o555 posted December 19th, 2009 at 12:18 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 170 times. Answered 90 times.

I had an advertisement on new Hanoian. I looked for a boyfriend (to hang out with this Xmas and Lunar new year festaval) and then I dated with a brown teeth guy. After 3 times dating he said we are to difference as persons and no want meet me anymore. I don't want to post an advertisement but I want to have a new boyfriend, what should I do?

Agent004 Agent004 posted September 4th, 2011 at 1:06 am to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 127 times. Answered 13 times.

What are people's definition of a NATIVE ENGLISH SPEAKER on this site? Is it a way to disguise some alterior motive or does it actually mean: "Someone's who first language is English"

takeiteasy takeiteasy posted September 30th, 2010 at 6:04 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 231 times. Answered 120 times.

I've seen a lot of posts be failed/meh'ed. There was usually nothing offensive about them. I don't really understand...Isn't the idea of an online forum to share opinions and hear other people's ideas regardless of whether you agree? Isn't "failing" someone kind of out of line with the spirit of that? It seems rather rude.

Lastnight Lastnight posted May 6th, 2011 at 7:15 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 140 times. Answered 78 times.

Anybody know what this is all about?

majortio majortio posted August 15th, 2010 at 9:46 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 148 times. Answered 60 times.

Who has worked for Hanoi Academy in Seputra? What are yr experiences? Student-wise, management-wise and so on. What about the students. I could not find any reviews here. Strange as it is a big international school...

Vegas (elite user) Vegas posted December 29th, 2009 at 6:37 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 152 times. Answered 25 times.

Today when I was eating lunch in KFC (an occasional guilty pleasure), a rather chubby guy came up to me and my partner's table dressed in a clean sports tracksuit and trainers - not scruffy or undernourished-looking at all - and intimated to me that he was both deaf and dumb. He was pointing to his mouth and putting his hand out, which is the universal gesticulation of the beggar, although he was making several other gestures which I'm guessing were pertaining to his inability to communicate verbally. I shook my head and started to ignore him, but he wasn't going anywhere, and he started tapping my arm when I looked away, to my great annoyance. Then - and this would have to be the mother of all tactical errors in art of begging - he pulled out a 200,000 dong note and indicated that he w...

alpha alpha posted June 20th, 2010 at 5:32 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 152 times. Answered 102 times.

As many of you may have already read in the newsletter, changes are about to take place in the Ask A.N.H. section. We will be returning the section to its original purpose as a place to find practical information about life in Hanoi. Our experiment in allowing greater levels of free-flowing discussion to happen here has resulted in many of the very tendencies that we wished to avoid when we explicitly avoided adding a discussion forum to the site. Like so many expat sites around the world, the tone quickly degenerated into ranting and raving about a place that the vast majority of us voluntarily choose to live in. Helping one another overcome the difficulties that Hanoi life can involve gave way to adolescent name calling, escalating flame wars, and the general sense that posting a ...

DabHand DabHand posted May 28th, 2010 at 10:58 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 121 times. Answered 55 times.

So just two weeks till kick off, who is gunna win? what do ya reckon? Latest William Hill odds Spain 4/1, Brazil 9/2, England 6/1, Argentina 7/1, Holland 10s, Italy 14s, Germany 14/1, France 16/1, Portugal 22, USA level with Ghana at 80 to 1, South Africa and Australia 125 to 1, let's not forget the Kiwis at 2000/1. Probably biased towards England (English Company), but being honest i think France and Argentina each way might be a good bet.

hcm_0605 hcm_0605 posted June 15th, 2010 at 7:15 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 135 times. Answered 41 times.

Blackout, will you be affected, evn is performing a before-rain-season check to the grid, causes following days (untill 18, i guess) a large-scale cut-off in various blocks, mainly daytime. check up at get ready and good luck.

DabHand DabHand posted June 14th, 2010 at 7:32 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 121 times. Answered 45 times.

Do any of the wise people/DJs of Hanoi have any advice regarding how to get rid off the horrendous noise made by them stupid trumpets at the World Cup

dawnation (elite user) dawnation posted June 11th, 2010 at 9:58 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 272 times. Answered 12 times.

I'm not looking for comments on whether you are for or against, but rather I'd like to know the law. No, I am not planning a new career and it's not for a "friend" of mine. I've seen a lot of things just recently (maybe related to the "hottie" thread) at hubby's hotel, but when I ask about the legality, I'm told that as long as they show their ID, there is nothing the staff can do. Normally, they don't have this issue, but quite recently it seems to have blossomed into something that is an issue. So, knowing the law may help me when advising staff on how to deal with the issue. I've poked around on the net and found nothing substantial.

joeburg joeburg posted March 23rd, 2009 at 3:22 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 156 times. Answered 47 times.

The rumour doing the rounds is that the old Bobby Chins restaurant at Hoan Kiem Lake is earmarked as a first McDonalds in the city! Does anyone have any confirmation on this? Can we start a petition against it!

vic05 (elite user) vic05 posted June 11th, 2010 at 6:24 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 82 times. Answered 12 times.

is it just me, or, is it getting hot here??

Devorah Devorah posted June 10th, 2010 at 9:12 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 212 times. Answered 29 times.

Has anyone else had weird phone calls from Viet Namese males first wanting to speak "inglesh" with you and then offering to have love with you? I am not kidding here, today has the forth such phone call in the last two weeks! Screaming WTF and hanging up has not helped. Is this random calling or what?

dawnation (elite user) dawnation posted June 10th, 2010 at 12:51 am to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 85 times. Answered 11 times.

After days of tending to a fever-stricken child, I've had lots of time to stare at cartoons with her while catching up on the under-rated art of mindless daydreaming. While traveling a mental path on memories of home, I suddenly recalled the Krispy Kreme drive-thru, which led to a more general wondering of whether or not a drive-thru window (for both bikes and cars) would work in Hanoi. Just curious.

babyinhanoi babyinhanoi posted June 1st, 2010 at 11:29 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 117 times. Answered 30 times.

Do you think that computers might take the place of a human teacher in a classroom?

babyinhanoi babyinhanoi posted June 1st, 2010 at 1:09 pm to Ask ANH Discussions. Viewed 254 times. Answered 56 times.

Why do Hanoi-ans drop litter while they are eating in street foods, or in public places?


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